Wednesday, March 8, 2017

The Essentials of Being Essential

The parking area in our office building would put any driving test arena to shame. An area meant for eight cars, somehow accommodates anything from ten to fourteen cars of all shapes and sizes. Is it magic? No. It’s Ashok.

Ashok is the security guard. Ashok does not know to drive. Yet, without him, all of us drivers are on tenterhooks. It is probably his spacial skills, or imagination, or I don’t know what, but he guides even the worst amongst us to take the vehicle out, even in reverse, without as much as a scratch. You have to see the parking lot to understand what kind of a herculean task I’m talking about. Take a look at the photograph.

Cut marke…left se….haan haan…ab seedha…seedha…right se cut mariye….thoda…bas bas….ab seedha….’ and you are out safe and sound. When Ashok guides, the rear view mirrors become redundant. In fact, I would do it with my eyes closed. Except that I need to see the guiding gestures that Ashok makes. When driving under his directions, I keep my brain in ‘Follow Ashok’s Instructions’ mode, with no thinking of my own. That’s the kind of faith I have in his non-driving driving skills. Believe me, that’s what we all do.

But life is such that sometimes there are catastrophes – Ashok goes on long leave! A whole month without Ashok? I nearly give up driving and certainly give up driving in reverse out of the parking lot!

A simple man doing a regular security guards job which mainly involves opening and closing the gate. Yet, Ashok has mastered the skill of guiding drivers and making maximum use of the parking lot. This simple skill makes him essential, makes him wanted and indispensable for the smooth functioning of the parking lot and our peace of mind (no driving around in circles looking for parking). There are so many other guards who come and go as per their shift, but only Ashok has made an indelible mark in our minds and made himself essential to our daily survival.


How essential am I in this world? Which skill(s) have I mastered? Would it make a difference to anyone’s life if I disappeared on long leave? How many would be aghast at my absence? How many would miss me? Eh…I think I’d rather not have answers to these questions! Ignorance is bliss!